# 7 ways how to soften beard properly and deeply Canonical: https://www.spartanbeardco.com/lp/beard-balm/how-to-soften-beard Published: 2 Oct 2026 Product: [𝗦𝗣𝗔𝗥𝗧𝗔𝗡 𝗕𝗘𝗔𝗥𝗗™ Balm](https://www.spartanbeardco.com/products/beard-balm-premium-organic-80g-spartan-beard-co) > Seven ways to soften your beard: the oils and butters that work, techniques that matter, and how SPARTAN BEARD Balm delivers them all. From £9.97. Your beard is coarse, wiry, uncomfortable. You want it soft enough that your partner does not mind you kissing their face. Most solutions people try either do nothing or leave the beard greasy. The real fix is deep conditioning with the right oils and butters, applied daily. Here are seven ways to soften your beard for good, and why SPARTAN BEARD Balm delivers on every one. 𝗦𝗣𝗔𝗥𝗧𝗔𝗡 𝗕𝗘𝗔𝗥𝗗™ Balm: Subscribe & save: £9.97 first 28 days, then £24.97 every 28 days · cancel any time · £37.97 one-time, no subscription ## What buyers say - Finally sorted the itch beneath my beard. — Henry Dawson, verified buyer - Rough wiry hair turned soft and manageable. — Grant Michaels, verified buyer - Flyaways disappeared completely, keeping my beard neat from morning right through to night. — Charlie Pearson, verified buyer ## How it works 1. **Small Scoop** — scoop a small amount of balm with your fingers 2. **Warm It Up** — rub between palms to soften and warm the balm 3. **Massage Through** — work evenly through your beard and moustache, reaching the skin underneath 4. **Style as Desired** — shape with fingers or a comb for your preferred look ## 1. Nourish with oils that mimic natural skin moisture **Who it's for:** Anyone with a dry, stiff or uncomfortable beard. Jojoba is the closest match to your skin's natural oil, so your beard recognises it and absorbs it immediately. This conditioning goes deep into the hair shaft, softening it from inside out. **Why it matters:** Jojoba Oil conditions hair and mimics natural skin oils to support healthy growth conditions. **Tip:** Warm the balm between your palms before applying so it spreads evenly and penetrates the beard. ## 2. Seal in moisture with butters that smooth **Who it's for:** Men with rough, tangles or flyaways. Cocoa Butter seals the moisture from the oils into the hair, so softness lasts longer throughout the day. It also adds smoothness and shine, making the beard feel and look healthier. **Why it matters:** Cocoa Butter adds shine and smoothness while sealing in moisture for a softer beard. **Tip:** Apply after the balm has absorbed; a second light layer keeps the softness locked in. ## 3. Strengthen hair so it feels less coarse **Who it's for:** Guys with wiry, curly or thick beards. Coarse hair is often weak and damaged. Argan Oil strengthens the hair shaft from root to tip, reducing breakage and making individual strands feel softer and more pliable to the touch. **Why it matters:** Argan Oil tames frizz and strengthens hair, helping reduce breakage and flyaways. **Tip:** Comb through the beard after applying the balm to distribute the oil and align the hair. ## 4. Add lightweight hydration without weight **Who it's for:** Men whose beards always look greasy or heavy. A soft beard does not have to be a heavy beard. Grapeseed Oil hydrates the hair without the grease. Your beard stays conditioned and soft, but light and styled, not weighed down. **Why it matters:** Grapeseed Oil provides lightweight hydration that adds shine without weighing the beard down. **Tip:** Use a small amount; Grapeseed Oil is one of the lighter oils so less goes a long way. ## 5. Support healthy follicles for softer growth over time **Who it's for:** Anyone wanting softer, healthier-looking beard growth every month. Soft starts at the root. Vitamin E supports the follicles, helping them produce stronger, healthier, softer hair over time. Daily conditioning builds on this, so your beard gets softer the longer you use it. **Why it matters:** Vitamin E provides antioxidant support to help protect and repair hair follicles from environmental stress. **Tip:** Give it a month of daily use to see the change in new growth. ## 6. Reduce frizz so the beard looks intentional **Who it's for:** Men with wavy, curly or textured beards. Frizz makes a beard look rough and unkempt, even if the hair is soft. Argan Oil tames flyaways and aligns the hair so it looks and feels smooth and intentional, not wild. **Why it matters:** Argan Oil tames frizz and strengthens hair, helping reduce breakage and flyaways. **Tip:** Comb gently through damp beard to align the hair before the balm dries. ## 7. Make softness a daily habit without the cost **Who it's for:** Anyone who wants soft beard without paying full price every month. SPARTAN BEARD Balm is £37.97 one-time. On subscription start at £9.97 for the first order, then £24.97 every 28 days, with free delivery, free returns and a 60-day guarantee. Cancel or pause anytime. You can also buy multiples: 2 for £58.97, or 3 for £69.97. **Why it matters:** Subscribe for £9.97 on the first order, then £24.97 every 28 days, with free delivery and returns. **Tip:** Subscribe if you use it daily, which is what keeps your beard soft long-term. ## Made in the UK, tested every batch - **Handmade in small batches** – natural ingredients, free from parabens, sulfates and harmful chemicals - **Organic plant oils** – no silicones, no greasy residue - **Pause or cancel any time** – subscribers save up to 48% ## The short version A coarse, uncomfortable beard is one that lacks deep moisture and the nourishing oils that support softness. Daily conditioning with oils and butters—Jojoba, Cocoa Butter, Argan, Grapeseed, and Vitamin E—softens the beard from inside and outside, and keeps it… Start SPARTAN BEARD Balm at £9.97 on subscription, apply a small scoop daily, work through the beard and comb, and watch it soften over two weeks. ## Frequently asked questions ### How long before my beard feels softer? Most men notice softness within three to five days of daily use. Full conditioning and lasting softness usually take two weeks. ### Can I use it on a wet beard? Yes, you can apply to slightly damp beard; the balm spreads further. For maximum absorption, you can also apply to a fully dry beard. ### Will it leave my beard greasy? Not if you use the right amount. A small scoop—about the size of a pea—is enough for a full beard. The formula is designed to absorb quickly and leave a soft, matte finish. ### Is it safe to use daily? Yes. It is made with natural, organic ingredients and designed for daily use. Many men apply it every morning and evening for best results. ### Does it work for all beard lengths? Yes. Whether you have a short stubble or a long, flowing beard, the conditioning formula softens and protects the hair at any length. ### What if I have a sensitive beard or skin? Sweet Almond Oil in the blend supports skin comfort, and all ingredients are natural and organic with no parabens or sulfates. Start with a small amount and work up. ### How does the subscription work and how do I cancel? Your first order is £9.97 for the first 28 days, then £24.97 every 28 days. You can cancel any time. ### What is the guarantee? Every order is covered by our 60 Day Guarantee, with Free Returns and Free Shipping. ## Why 𝗦𝗣𝗔𝗥𝗧𝗔𝗡 𝗕𝗘𝗔𝗥𝗗™ Balm If your beard is rough and uncomfortable, SPARTAN BEARD Balm is the answer. Eight natural oils and butters that condition deeply, soften thoroughly and leave no grease. From £9.97 on your first subscription order. **60 Day Guarantee.** 60 Day Guarantee · Free Returns · Free Shipping · Free delivery · order ready in 1–2 days · delivered in 7–10 days ## Related guides - [6 benefits of beard balm that shape, soften and soothe](https://www.spartanbeardco.com/lp/beard-balm/beard-balm): Six ways beard balm shapes your beard, softens every strand and soothes the skin underneath. SPARTAN BEARD™ Balm: 8 organic oils, no chemicals. - [7 ways the best beard balm softens, shapes and stops the itch](https://www.spartanbeardco.com/lp/beard-balm/best-beard-balm): Seven reasons beard balm works, which ingredients do the job, and how SPARTAN BEARD™ Balm delivers all seven. - [5 reasons to choose beard balm over oil](https://www.spartanbeardco.com/lp/beard-balm/beard-balm-vs-oil): Beard balm vs oil: which holds better, conditions more, and lasts longer. 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